Study Your Wife is the manual you never got and the invitation to write your own
In this practical guide, marriage coach Hasani Pettiford (co-founder of Couples Academy) walks husbands through the lifelong practice of truly knowing their wives. Drawing from years of working with married couples across six continents, Hasani shares a simple but transformative idea: every husband should be earning his "PhD" in his wife — and most don't even have a G.E.D.
Inside, you'll discover how to:
Decode her personality, love languages, and emotional triggers
Understand the family history and formative experiences that shaped who she is
Navigate conflict in a way that builds trust instead of resentment
Support her physical, mental, and emotional well-being
Deepen intimacy and keep romance alive in everyday moments
Recognize her struggles, frustrations, and unspoken concerns
Create your own personalized "Book of [Her Name]" — a living manual you'll add to for the rest of your marriage
With over 600 thoughtfully crafted questions organized across 13 chapters, this book gives you the conversations most couples never have — the ones that turn a good marriage into a great one.
Whether you're newly married or decades in, Study Your Wife will help you become the husband she always hoped you'd be: attentive, present, and irreplaceable.
Stop guessing. Start studying. Become the kind of husband she can't imagine her life without.
